In a rare and emotional interview, Mark Harmon’s wife, actress Pam Dawber, has opened up about the man behind the iconic NCIS character—and her words have left fans stunned. “He’s not the man you think he is,” Dawber shared, before quickly clarifying that the real Mark is even more complex and vulnerable than the stoic Leroy Jethro Gibbs he portrayed for nearly two decades.

Dawber revealed that behind Harmon’s calm and private public image is someone deeply emotional, sensitive, and constantly burdened by the weight of his responsibilities. “People see a strong leader on-screen,” she said, “but at home, he carries pain. He’s been through more than anyone knows.” She also mentioned that Harmon’s choice to step away from NCIS wasn’t just professional—it was personal, tied to quiet battles he never made public.

Her words have sparked a wave of support from fans, many expressing a newfound appreciation for the man behind the character. While Harmon remains largely out of the spotlight, this rare glimpse into his personal life has only deepened the respect and admiration viewers have for him.