Cote de Pablo has finally opened up about her off-screen relationship with Mark Harmon, and her words reflect nothing but deep respect and admiration. The actress, who played Ziva David on NCIS, described Harmon as a mentor and steady presence throughout her time on the show. She noted that their dynamic behind the scenes was filled with mutual trust, professionalism, and a quiet understanding that mirrored their characters’ bond on-screen.

De Pablo said Harmon was someone who led by example, never dominating a room but always commanding respect. She praised his calm, grounded demeanor and how he made the set feel like a stable, welcoming place. Even when she returned for her surprise arc years after leaving the show, she said the bond with Harmon picked up effortlessly, like no time had passed.

She also shared small, personal anecdotes, including the humorous nicknames they had for each other and the warm, teasing tone of their interactions. Despite years of fan speculation about any romantic tension, de Pablo made it clear that her connection with Harmon was rooted in friendship, loyalty, and a kind of familial affection that lasted beyond the confines of the show.

Their real-life connection, she suggested, added depth to their characters’ relationship and contributed to some of the most emotionally resonant scenes in NCIS history. For fans, her comments confirm what many had sensed all along: that the bond between Ziva and Gibbs was a reflection of something very real between the actors who portrayed them.